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Abigail Borquaye

Abigail Borquaye

Therapist · United Kingdom

Gentle counselling for relationship and life strains

  • Relationship focus
  • Trauma-informed approach
  • English and Twi

About Abigail

Abigail Borquaye is a counsellor who helps people deal with relationship and family difficulties. She supports those facing depression, anxiety, grief, addiction and trauma. She also works with clients who struggle with self-esteem, anger, intimacy and parenting concerns. Abigail speaks English and Twi and practices in the United Kingdom.

With 19 years of experience, Abigail brings a client-centred style to sessions. She listens and follows the person’s pace, creating space to talk honestly about painful experiences. Her background includes many years supporting women and families before training as a professional counsellor and becoming a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

Abigail uses a blend of approaches to suit different needs. She draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early relationships shape present patterns. She also uses cognitive behavioural techniques to spot unhelpful thinking and emotionally focused work to address connection and closeness in relationships. Psychodynamic ideas inform deeper exploration of past events and recurring patterns.

People meet her for a wide range of difficulties, including domestic violence, bereavement, childhood abuse and work-related stress. She also supports those managing life changes, caregiver strain, codependency and substance concerns. Sessions aim to clarify what matters, reduce distress and build practical ways forward.

Abigail describes her rooms as a safe space to explore fears and needs. To begin, readers are asked to use the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire before booking.

How Abigail’s approaches translate to online work

Abigail draws on attachment-based work to examine how early bonds influence current relationships, helping people notice patterns in how they connect and withdraw. She also uses client-centred therapy, which means sessions focus on listening, acceptance and helping clients articulate their own goals and decisions. Cognitive behavioural techniques are used to identify unhelpful thinking and develop practical steps to change behaviours and mood.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapy journey. Abigail works collaboratively to decide which methods suit a person’s needs and goals. Together they review what feels helpful and adjust the approach over time to keep progress moving.

If you are considering online sessions, please confirm the session options before booking as formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around daily life, for example by reducing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins during busy days or offering a choice about being on camera. These practical benefits help many people maintain continuity of care while juggling work, family and other commitments.

Areas of focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepressionStress, AnxietyAddictionsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue
AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can Abigail help with?

She supports people with relationship and family difficulties, depression, anxiety, grief, addiction and trauma. Additional areas include parenting, career stress, intimacy issues and coping with life changes.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is client-centred and collaborative, focusing on listening and following the person’s pace. She blends approaches to match what each person needs in the room.

What is her professional background?

She has 19 years of experience and worked with women and families for many years before qualifying as a counsellor. She has experience supporting people referred by GPs and in community drop-in settings.

What credentials and location are listed for her?

She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Twi to accommodate speakers of both languages.

Can people living outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients; confirm time zones and scheduling when arranging sessions.

How are costs and payments handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. Confirm pricing during the booking process.

What steps start the process of working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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