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Ayotunde Popoola

Ayotunde Popoola

Therapist · United Kingdom

Compassionate counsellor for everyday struggles

  • Person-centred focus
  • Practical tools
  • BACP registered

About Ayotunde

Ayotunde Popoola is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, grief and life changes. She works with issues such as low self-esteem, depression, trauma and anger, and supports clients dealing with career pressures. Ayotunde’s first priority is helping people find small, practical steps they can try between sessions.

She uses a person-centred stance that treats each person as an individual. That means listening closely and shaping conversations around what matters to the client. Ayotunde blends other approaches when useful, including cognitive behavioural ideas and trauma-focused techniques, to match the session to a person’s needs.

Sessions focus on clear goals and straightforward tools. She helps people notice unhelpful thought patterns and practise different ways of responding. She also works with emotional connection and attachment concerns, using techniques that aim to reduce distress and improve relationships with oneself and others.

Ayotunde has four years of experience and holds BACP registration, which is recorded here as BACP. Her practice addresses a range of topics from abandonment and adoption-related concerns to communication problems and caregiver stress. She aims to keep sessions simple and practical, so people can use what they learn in everyday life.

If you want to start, the usual next step is to complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to availability. The process is intended to be straightforward and to help people move towards clearer thinking and calmer days.

How her approaches translate to online counselling

Ayotunde uses a person-centred approach alongside cognitive behavioural and trauma-focused methods. Person-centred work focuses on listening and meeting each person where they are, helping clients set the pace and topics for sessions. Cognitive behavioural ideas look at unhelpful thoughts and habits and introduce practical exercises to change them. Trauma-focused techniques aim to help people process difficult experiences safely and reduce their ongoing impact.

Choosing the best approach is part of the therapeutic process. Ayotunde will work collaboratively to identify which methods fit a client's needs and goals. She checks in about what is helpful and adapts the approach as the work progresses, so clients can influence how therapy develops.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the exact session formats before booking because specific formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce time spent travelling, and offer options that suit different energy levels or check-in lengths. Some people prefer a shorter session when they are tight for time, while others use sessions as a longer space for deeper reflection. Talk with the therapist about practical arrangements when you start so sessions match your routine and needs.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyGriefSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changesTrauma and abuseAnger managementCareer difficulties
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and depression, plus life changes and career concerns. Additional areas include trauma and abuse, anger, and relationship-related difficulties such as communication problems and codependency.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her core style is person-centred counselling, which means sessions are shaped around the client's priorities. She integrates techniques from cognitive behavioural and trauma-focused approaches when they fit the client's goals.

How long has she been practising?

She has four years of professional experience working with people on a range of emotional and practical problems.

Where is she based and what credential does she hold?

She practises in the United Kingdom and is recorded with BACP, listed here as BACP.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can I work with her from another country?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What should I do to begin therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then arrange sessions according to the therapist's scheduling options.

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