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Bethany Kobus

Bethany Kobus

Therapist · New York

Compassionate counselor for adults navigating life changes

  • Focus on emotional wellbeing
  • Practical skill building
  • Collaborative care

About Bethany

Bethany Kobus is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) based in New York. She brings five years of clinical counseling experience plus a decade of work as a social worker. Bethany supports adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD, trauma, and major life changes.

She trained in social work at SUNY Plattsburgh and completed a master’s degree at Medaille College. Bethany previously worked in an outpatient clinic where she saw children, adolescents, and adults, and she draws on that range when planning care for adults now. Her background blends practical skills with understanding of community-based services.

Sessions focus on helping people manage strong emotions like guilt, shame, and isolation. She emphasizes building self-love and clearer communication. Practical tools from cognitive behavioral approaches and skills-based therapies are paired with attention to emotional and bodily experiences.

Bethany uses a mix of approaches to match each person’s needs, including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), attachment-based techniques, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and client-centered principles. She also incorporates somatic ideas and eye movement desensitization and reprocessing when appropriate.

Her style is compassionate and affirming. She works collaboratively to develop strategies that fit daily life. People who want steadier emotion regulation, clearer relationship skills, or help navigating life transitions may find her approach useful.

Therapeutic approaches and online care that fit your life

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then take action that aligns with their values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, and life transitions where choices feel hard to make.

Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental space where the person leads the pace of change. This approach supports self-discovery, emotional expression, and building self-compassion for issues like depression, low self-esteem, and relationship concerns.

Finding the best approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk about your goals and try methods that match your needs and preferences. Decisions about which methods to use are collaborative and can shift as progress is made.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, for example by reducing travel time and allowing appointments during breaks or between commitments. It also lets people maintain continuity of care when moving or traveling. The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current options before booking to see how sessions might fit your routine.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseCoping with life changesADHDRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemDepressionCompassion fatigue
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Domestic violenceFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, grief, relationship and intimacy-related issues, parenting strain, and other life changes.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is compassionate and collaborative, focusing on practical skills, emotional processing, and supporting personal strengths in everyday life.

What is her professional background?

She has five years of clinical counseling experience and ten years as a social worker, with prior work in an outpatient clinic serving children, adolescents, and adults.

What credential does she hold and where is she located?

She is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) licensed in New York and practices from New York.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English, and she also accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to therapist availability.

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