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David LaBua

David LaBua

Therapist · California

Clear, practical support for relationship and life changes

  • Relationship focus
  • Practical guidance
  • Compassionate listening

About David

David LaBua is a California licensed marriage and family therapist with 24 years of professional experience. He focuses on helping people untangle relationship pain, family conflict, intimacy issues, and struggles tied to career and life transitions. He writes and talks plainly, and aims to make the first steps feel manageable for someone who is worried or overwhelmed.

His work centers on respectful, compassionate conversation. He listens for what matters most to each person and adapts the plan to fit their situation. Sessions emphasize clear goals and steady progress rather than one-size-fits-all solutions.

David helps people address a wide range of concerns that often come up together. These include abandonment and attachment wounds, communication and control issues, divorce and separation, and challenges around forgiveness, guilt, and shame. He also supports people facing questions about life purpose, sexuality, self-love, narcissistic dynamics, and men’s midlife concerns.

Money and financial issues are part of his stated focus when they affect relationships and day-to-day life. He works with clients to talk through the emotional side of finances and how money patterns show up in partnerships or personal choices.

People who prefer straightforward, practical guidance tend to fit well with his style. He partners with clients to set realistic steps and to build clearer conversations at home and work. If that sounds helpful, the next step is a short match questionnaire to schedule a first session.

Approaches that guide online work and finding the right fit

David uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on repairing relationships and clarifying life goals. One common strand is attachment-focused work, which looks at how early relationship patterns shape current trust and closeness and helps people practice different ways of connecting. Another useful approach addresses communication and behavioral patterns, teaching concrete skills for clearer conversations and better problem solving in daily life.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about their needs, goals, and preferences, and together they will try methods that suit those priorities. Adjustments are made over time based on what feels most helpful.

The original biography does not list specific online session formats, so please confirm current options before booking. Many people find online therapy helpful for fitting sessions into a busy schedule, shortening travel time, and making it easier to maintain regular appointments. It can also make check-ins simpler around work hours or during periods of transition. If you have questions about formats or logistics, confirm them when you complete the short matching questionnaire so scheduling matches your life and goals.

Areas of focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes
AbandonmentAttachment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationForgivenessGuilt and shameLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismSelf-loveSexuality

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?

He works with relationship and family difficulties, intimacy problems, career struggles, and coping with life changes. Additional focuses include abandonment, attachment, communication problems, and money and financial issues when they affect relationships.

What is his general therapeutic style?

He uses straightforward, compassionate conversation and adapts the plan to each person. Sessions emphasize clear goals and practical steps rather than generic approaches.

How much experience does he have?

He has 24 years of professional experience working with clients on relationship and life concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a CA LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California. His practice is based in California.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before scheduling.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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