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David Slingsby

David Slingsby

Therapist · United Kingdom

Compassionate counsellor for stress and relationships

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Depression support

About David

David Slingsby is a counsellor practising in the United Kingdom. He holds BACP registration and has three years of professional experience supporting people through common mental health difficulties. David aims to offer a calm, respectful space where people can talk about what is worrying them and find practical ways forward.

He works with stress and anxiety and supports people dealing with low mood and depression. Relationship concerns and the effects of past trauma or abuse are also within his experience. He tailors conversations and plans to each person's situation rather than using one fixed approach.

Sessions focus on clear, honest dialogue and on making small changes that add up. David listens for patterns that get in the way of daily life and helps people experiment with different ways of coping. He also addresses related issues such as self-esteem, confidence and problems tied to family of origin.

Additional areas David has worked with include abandonment worries, avoidant or dependent personality traits, body image, chronic illness and pain, caregiver stress, codependency, commitment and communication difficulties, and the emotional impacts of divorce or separation. He also supports people facing cancer-related concerns and those coping after disasters.

David describes his manner as sensitive and compassionate, and he aims to meet each person where they are. He encourages people to be practical about goals and to take manageable steps toward a more fulfilling life.

How evidence-based approaches translate to online counselling

David describes his work as grounded in evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change and clear conversation. One common method helps people notice the thoughts and behaviours that keep anxiety and low mood going, then tries out small behavioural changes to shift those patterns. Another approach concentrates on understanding how past hurts or family patterns affect current relationships, and on building different ways of relating and communicating.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will listen to a person's goals and preferences and then suggest ways of working that suit those needs. Decisions about technique are made collaboratively and adjusted as progress or obstacles become clear.

If you are considering online work, check the available session options before booking so you know what formats are offered. Online counselling can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also be useful when quieter surroundings or a lower-bandwidth connection are preferable. Confirm the specific session formats with the service when you sign up so you can pick the arrangement that best fits everyday life.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression
AbandonmentAvoidant personalityBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this counsellor help with?

David works with stress, anxiety, depression and relationship issues, plus trauma and abuse and related challenges such as self-esteem and confidence.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He uses a practical, conversational style that focuses on clear dialogue and small, achievable changes tailored to each person.

How much experience does he have?

He has three years of professional work experience in the United Kingdom supporting a range of mental health and life challenges.

What credentials and location are listed for this counsellor?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and payment handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What is the process to begin therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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