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Dilek Nakiboglu

Dilek Nakiboglu

Therapist · United Kingdom

Humanistic counsellor focusing on relationships and growth

  • Relationship patterns
  • Identity and boundaries
  • Mental health support

About Dilek

Dilek Nakiboglu helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem and relationship problems. She also supports those facing trauma, addiction, grief, eating or sleeping difficulties, and challenges around intimacy or parenting. Dilek is a BACP counsellor with nine years of practice in the United Kingdom and she works with individuals who want to understand patterns in their lives and change them.

Dilek emphasises how our relationships shape the way we see the world. She talks about boundaries, how we express ourselves, and how defensive habits can push us away from our true feelings. In early sessions she looks at personal history - family, school, work and key life events - to build a picture of current strengths and struggles.

Her style is humanistic and client-centred. Dilek offers empathy and a non-judgemental space where people can explore identity and behaviour. She treats the therapeutic relationship as a collaboration and aims to help people remove obstacles that block personal growth.

Practical choices about therapy are part of the work. After an initial meeting to agree priorities, clients can choose shorter focused counselling of about six to 12 weeks or longer-term work to look deeper. Sessions are usually planned weekly, with frequency discussed and agreed together.

Dilekʼs qualifications include an MSc in Psychology from the University of East London and vocational counselling diplomas. She invites people who are ready to commit and engage in therapy to begin a process of learning and development.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online counselling

Attachment-based therapy looks at patterns formed in relationships and how they shape current reactions. Online sessions can be used to notice those patterns, discuss early experiences and practise new ways of relating. Client-centred therapy focuses on listening, acceptance and the relationship itself; in remote sessions the counsellor offers empathic presence and reflection to help people feel understood. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) helps identify unhelpful thinking and behaviour and then tries practical experiments and new routines to change them; this can work well in online work where homework and brief exercises are set between meetings.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with the person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals and comfort. Plans are adjusted as understanding grows, so the approach can shift over time based on what proves most useful.

Confirm the available session formats before you book because the biography does not list them. Online counselling can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and enable quicker check-ins when life is hectic. It also allows work to continue for people who live abroad or who need to arrange appointments around work or family commitments. Registered or accredited professionals can use these options to support ongoing change without promising a specific outcome.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepressionAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this counsellor help with?

Dilek works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, eating and sleeping problems, parenting and career challenges, and ADHD.

What is the therapeutic style and approach?

The approach is humanistic and client-centred, drawing on attachment-based ideas, cognitive behavioural techniques and mindfulness where helpful to the person.

How long has she been practising?

She has nine years of experience working as a counsellor and psychotherapist in the United Kingdom.

What qualifications does she hold and where is she based?

Her qualifications include an MSc in Psychology from the University of East London and vocational counselling diplomas, and she is BACP registered in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are used in sessions and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session formats before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats and options may vary.

How are fees organised?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with this counsellor?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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