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Heather Lockey

Heather Lockey

Therapist · North Carolina

Hope-focused social worker helping with life stressors

  • Strengths-based
  • Practical steps
  • Values-led

About Heather

Heather Lockey is an LCSW licensed in North Carolina with eight years of clinical experience. She focuses on practical help for stress, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting challenges, and substance concerns. Heather emphasizes clients' own strengths and works with each person to set realistic goals they can use outside sessions.

She uses a mix of approaches to match the situation and the person. Heather often draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot patterns of thought and behavior. She also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy tools for managing difficult emotions and building new habits.

Heather has supported people dealing with trauma, family conflict, abandonment, and relationship strain. She also helps with sleep problems, ADHD-related challenges, body image, and caregiver stress. Her experience includes working with issues related to adoption and foster care, blended families, and substance use concerns.

Sessions emphasize clear, doable steps and real-life practice. Heather works in a client-centered way, listening first and then offering strategies that fit each person's values and daily life. She invites questions and adjusts plans as needed.

If someone is worried about starting therapy, Heather encourages a simple first step: describe the most pressing concern and what a better week would look like. From there she helps create a plan that feels manageable and grounded in everyday routines.

How therapeutic approaches guide online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters most and then take small, value-driven steps even when feelings are hard. It is useful for long-standing worries, life changes, and decisions about relationships or work.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions. It teaches practical skills to challenge unhelpful thinking and to build routines that improve mood and sleep.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers concrete tools for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and clearer communication. These skills help when feelings feel overwhelming or when intense reactions strain relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Heather collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, needs, and daily life. She listens to what has helped before and adapts strategies rather than imposing a single method.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the current session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, shorten travel time, and allow check-ins during a break at work or between errands. Some methods translate well to remote sessions because they emphasize skill practice, homework, and brief behavioral experiments that can be done between meetings.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefDepressionAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesADHD
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Heather address?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and family issues, parenting, sleep problems, ADHD, and related concerns such as abandonment and caregiver stress.

What is Heather's general therapy style?

Her style is client-centered and practical. Sessions focus on listening, identifying goals, then trying techniques that fit the person's daily life.

How much professional experience does she have?

Heather has eight years of professional work experience supporting people with a range of mental health and life stress concerns.

What credentials and location are listed for Heather?

She is an LCSW licensed in North Carolina and practices from that state.

Can I work with Heather if I speak a language other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

What should I expect about cost and billing?

Session cost varies with location and therapist availability; services use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with Heather?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule based on the therapist's availability.

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