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Holly Lampkin

Holly Lampkin

Therapist · Oklahoma

Practical therapy for relationships and life changes

  • Relationship focus
  • Goal oriented
  • Evidence informed

About Holly

Holly Lampkin is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Oklahoma who focuses on practical help for everyday struggles. She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy concerns, depression, addictions, grief, and self-esteem challenges. Holly also works with issues related to family dynamics, communication, body image, and life transitions, including concerns tied to sexual expression and kink culture.

Holly uses straightforward, goal-oriented work in sessions. She draws on approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice patterns, test new ways of thinking, and try different actions. Emotionally-Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method inform how she addresses relationship patterns and communication.

Sessions emphasize collaboration. Holly listens to what matters most and then helps shape clear goals and steps to move forward. She offers coping tools, skills practice, and ways to track progress between visits.

Her background includes seven years of clinical practice and training in several evidence-based methods. She adapts her approach to each person’s needs and preferences so therapy fits real life and practical goals.

People come to Holly when they want to change habits, repair or clarify relationships, recover from loss or trauma, or get unstuck after a major life change. She focuses on concrete steps and steady progress rather than vague promises.

How Holly Uses Evidence-Based Approaches Online

Holly integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy in clear, practical ways. CBT helps people spot thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going and then try new, testable actions to change them. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy focuses on helping people notice unhelpful inner rules, clarify values, and take small steps toward a life they care about.

She also draws on Emotionally-Focused Therapy for relationship work, helping partners name emotional patterns and learn new ways of responding to each other. These approaches are useful for anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, grief, and coping with life transitions.

Choosing a therapeutic approach is a shared process. Holly will talk with each person about symptoms, goals, and preferences and then suggest methods to try. That plan can change as progress is made, and she uses regular check-ins to make sure the work fits the client's needs.

Session formats are not listed here, so please confirm current online session options before booking. Many people find online therapy helps fit sessions into busy schedules, allows shorter check-ins when needed, and reduces travel time. Online work can make it easier to keep momentum between visits and apply new skills in everyday settings.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepressionAddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCoping with life changesCoaching
AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Holly address?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, grief, body image, and many family and life-change concerns.

What is her general therapy style?

Holly takes a collaborative, practical approach that sets clear goals and uses skills practice between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has seven years of experience working with a range of concerns and uses multiple evidence-based approaches.

What credential and location information is available?

Holly holds the LMFT credential and practices in Oklahoma.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started if I want to work with Holly?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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