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James Costigan

James Costigan

Therapist · United Kingdom

Compassionate, practical counselling for life challenges

  • Calm listening
  • Practical tools
  • Work and life focus

About James

James Costigan is a counsellor with nine years' experience who helps people tackle anxiety, stress and relationship difficulties. He uses a calm, steady approach to help clients name what feels overwhelming and find clearer ways to cope. He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

James aims to create a space where people can slow down and make sense of their feelings. Sessions focus on building self-awareness and practical skills to manage mood, anger, addiction struggles and work pressures. He draws on his background in corporate life when people bring in job or performance concerns.

His style is straightforward and down-to-earth. He listens without judgement and works at a pace that suits each person. Conversations often cover patterns in relationships, boundaries, communication problems and difficulties with intimacy or self-esteem.

Common areas he addresses include depression, addictive behaviours, ADHD-related challenges, coping with life changes and stress linked to caring roles. He also helps people navigate attachment and abandonment concerns, body image and issues related to alternative sexual cultures such as BDSM and kink.

Over time James helps people translate insights into everyday changes. Practical tools from cognitive behavioural ideas and mindfulness are used alongside client-led conversations. The aim is clearer thinking, steadier moods and more confident decision-making.

Before booking, readers should confirm current session formats and practical arrangements. Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

How his approaches guide online work

Client-Centred Therapy is about shaping sessions around what matters to the person in front of him. The counsellor listens and follows the client's lead to help them understand themselves and their feelings. It is useful for issues like low self-worth, relationship patterns and emotional confusion.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy or CBT focuses on practical ways to change thinking and behaviour. It helps people spot unhelpful thought patterns, try different responses and measure small changes over time, which can be useful for anxiety, mood and addictive behaviours.

Mindfulness Therapy brings simple attention practices into everyday life to reduce reactivity and improve focus. It supports calmer responses to stress and helps with concentration difficulties often linked to ADHD or busy work lives.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The counsellor will discuss goals, try methods and adjust based on what helps most. Clients and the counsellor decide collaboratively which mix of listening, practical exercises and mindfulness suits each situation.

The therapist's biography does not list specific online formats, so please confirm session options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around work and family life, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals can offer flexible arrangements to help therapy fit into everyday schedules.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesLGBTIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD
AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What issues does this counsellor help with?

He works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship difficulties. Additional focuses include self-esteem, career pressures, ADHD and intimacy-related matters.

What is his therapeutic style like?

The approach is down-to-earth and client-centred, with an emphasis on listening and pacing work to suit each person. Sessions mix reflective conversation with practical techniques from cognitive behavioural ideas and mindfulness.

How much experience does he have?

He has nine years' experience working as a counsellor and draws on that background when addressing issues such as workplace stress and performance expectations.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so readers should confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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