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Jeffrey Lavallee

Jeffrey Lavallee

Therapist · Utah

Therapist focused on relationships and life change

  • Warm and direct
  • Practical tools
  • Goal oriented

About Jeffrey

Jeffrey Lavallee is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in Utah who helps people facing relationship strain, anxiety, depression, parenting stress, grief, and struggles with addiction or ADHD. He also supports people dealing with trauma, self-esteem, eating and sleeping difficulties, and the practical fallout from life changes. Jeffrey writes in a straightforward way and aims to make therapy feel approachable and useful from the first session.

His style is warm and interactive, with a direct and supportive tone. Conversations are practical and goal-focused, but respectful and nonjudgmental. He combines ideas from several therapy approaches to match each person's needs rather than using a single fixed method.

Over a 34-year career Jeffrey has worked with a wide range of concerns including adoption and foster care issues, attachment questions, blended family dynamics, chronic illness and caregiver stress, body image, and codependency. That experience shapes how he notices patterns in relationships and daily routines that feed distress.

In sessions he often uses cognitive-behavioral strategies to identify unhelpful thinking and mood patterns, attachment-based ideas to look at relational dynamics, and techniques adapted from emotion-focused and dialectical approaches when intensity or regulation are central concerns. He frames these tools simply so clients can try them between meetings.

Jeffrey approaches coaching and therapy as collaborative work. He helps people set clear, practical goals and develops plans that fit their life. To begin, he asks about what matters most and builds a path that feels achievable for each person.

How his approaches translate to online work

Jeffrey commonly integrates attachment-based ideas and cognitive-behavioral strategies in his work. Attachment-based work looks at how early and current relationships shape expectations and reactions, which can help when closeness or trust are causing recurring problems. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing them with simple experiments and behavior changes to reduce anxiety and depressed mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. He will talk with clients about their goals and preferences and then try methods that fit those needs. That collaboration means strategies are adjusted if something is not working or does not feel right.

Because the original profile does not specify online formats, confirm current session options before booking. In general, working with a licensed professional remotely can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Many people find remote appointments helpful for keeping continuity of care during life transitions and for practicing coping skills between meetings.

Areas of focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionStress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCoachingADHD
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Jeffrey address?

He supports people with relationship issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, ADHD, parenting stress, grief, eating and sleeping issues, and many life changes.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

His approach is warm and interactive yet direct and supportive, focusing on practical conversation and clear goals.

How much experience does he have as a therapist?

Jeffrey brings 34 years of clinical experience working across a broad range of concerns and settings.

What are his credentials and where is he located?

He holds an LMFT credential and practices in Utah.

Can sessions be conducted in other languages or for international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What steps do I take to begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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