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John Mclaughlin

John Mclaughlin

Therapist · United Kingdom

Calm, practical support for life changes

  • Focus on everyday problems
  • Non-judgemental listener
  • Six years' experience

About John

John Mclaughlin is a counsellor practicing in the United Kingdom with a BACP credential and six years of professional experience. He focuses on everyday problems like stress, anxiety, low self‑esteem and challenges with motivation. He aims to make it easier for someone to take that first step toward change and offers calm, non-judgemental support.

He works with people facing relationship tensions, family conflict and grief, and with those managing mood difficulties such as depression and bipolar. Addictions, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related concerns are also areas he addresses. He also helps people coping with life changes, career stress, and issues linked to parenting and caring responsibilities.

John uses a mix of practical and reflective approaches. He draws on cognitive behavioural techniques to look at thoughts and actions, and dialectical skills to help regulate emotions. Client-centred and attachment-based methods shape sessions so that the person feels heard and understood.

Sessions tend to focus on clear, doable steps rather than abstract theory. That might include noticing patterns, trying small behaviour changes, or practicing new ways to talk about difficult feelings. He also supports people exploring identity, sexuality and kink-related concerns without judgement.

If you are considering therapy, John asks you to start with a short matching questionnaire. The booking process then lets you choose a time that fits with his schedule and your needs.

Therapeutic approaches useful for remote work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose valued actions instead. It is useful for stress, anxiety and problems with motivation by focusing on what matters and small steps toward it.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions and teaches practical techniques to break negative cycles. It often suits people dealing with anxiety, depression and sleep or eating difficulties.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk through your goals and preferences and suggest which methods to try first. This is a collaborative process and adjustments are made if something does not feel like a good fit.

Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, for example by reducing travel time or allowing a quicker check-in during a lunch break. If you need clarity on which session formats are offered, confirm them before booking since the profile does not list specific options. Many people find remote sessions a practical way to keep continuity during life changes and to maintain regular support without rearranging their whole day.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepressionAddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does John commonly help with?

He works with stress, anxiety and low self-esteem and also supports people with relationship and family conflicts, grief, addiction and trauma-related issues.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Sessions are practical and conversational, mixing cognitive behavioural techniques, dialectical skills and client-centred listening to make space for feelings and decisions.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has six years of professional experience in the UK working with a range of mental health and life‑stress concerns.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is listed with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the original profile does not specify which formats are offered.

How are fees handled for therapy?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions run via a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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