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Katharine “Katy” Nicholson

Katharine “Katy” Nicholson

Therapist · New York

Warm, relationship-focused therapist who uses practical tools

  • Attachment informed
  • Parenting support
  • Relationship skills

About Katharine

Katharine “Katy” Nicholson practices from a client-centered and attachment-informed perspective. She draws on approaches like Attachment-Based Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy to help people untangle relationship patterns and improve connection. Katy uses clear, practical steps so people leave sessions with ideas they can try right away.

She has ten years of clinical experience and holds a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist credential, LMFT. Katy has spent much of her career in outpatient community mental health in New York. That background shaped a flexible style that blends structured techniques with empathic listening.

Katy often helps people who are coping with relationship strain, parenting challenges, anxiety, depression, grief, and trauma. She also supports those dealing with addiction, attention challenges, eating and sleep problems, and career stress. Money and financial issues appear among the concerns she addresses as part of broader life stressors.

In sessions she focuses on communication skills, problem solving, and building practical routines. She will work with individuals to identify what is not working and to try new ways of relating. The therapist aims to be warm and persistent, staying engaged until workable solutions are found.

People looking to begin are asked to use the site's Start Therapy button to complete a short matching questionnaire. Scheduling is arranged according to therapist availability and the practice uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How Katy translates therapy approaches to online care

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early bonds shape current relationships. It helps people notice patterns of closeness and distance and learn new ways to connect and feel understood. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts influence feelings and behavior and teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns. Emotionally-Focused Therapy helps people name and shift emotional responses to strengthen relationships and reduce reactivity.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Katy will work together with each person to choose methods that match their goals and preferences. That means trying tools, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan as needed in collaboration with the client.

Confirm session formats before booking, as specific online options are described during intake. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, avoid travel time, and keep consistent momentum between sessions. Some formats allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, and others let people use video when visual connection is helpful. Discussing practical needs during the first session helps tailor how therapy is delivered to everyday life.

Areas of focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesStress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist help with?

Katy helps people with relationship strain, parenting challenges, trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, eating and sleep issues, and related life stresses including money and financial issues.

What is her approach in therapy?

She blends client-centered care with attachment-focused and emotionally-focused work, and uses structured tools when helpful to teach communication and coping skills.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of clinical experience, including several years working in outpatient community mental health in New York.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in New York and practices from that location.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How are sessions priced and billed?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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