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Melisha Pillay

Melisha Pillay

Therapist · United Kingdom

A calm counsellor who helps people find freedom

  • Creative interventions
  • Values centred
  • Faith sensitive

About Melisha

Melisha Pillay is a counsellor with four years of experience and a BACP registration. She emphasises giving people a calm, respectful space to begin again. Melisha speaks plainly and uses creative ways to help people make changes more quickly than through talking alone.

She draws on personal experience of finding her own voice after a painful period, and that informs how she works. Sessions focus on what matters to the individual and on building confidence and self-worth. Melisha says empathy, honesty and trust guide every meeting.

Her approach mixes practical tools with attention to beliefs and values. That means using methods that fit someone’s own worldview, including Christian counselling when clients prefer faith-based support. The result aims to be real-world change rather than abstract discussion.

Melisha uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based and Emotionally-Focused ideas alongside a client-centred stance. She often brings creative techniques into sessions so people can move from where they are to where they want to be faster.

Typical concerns she helps with include stress, anxiety, relationships, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression, addictions, grief and issues around intimacy. She also supports people with parenting strain, career worries, ADHD and coping with life changes.

Melisha works from the United Kingdom and offers sessions in English. She accepts international clients and encourages prospective clients to check session options and scheduling when they start the process.

How her approaches translate to online counselling

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice what matters to them and take small, meaningful steps toward those things. It is often useful for anxiety, low mood and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact and teaches practical strategies to change unhelpful patterns. It can help with stress, sleep problems, low mood and managing symptoms day to day. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current connections and can be helpful for relationship worries and intimacy issues.

Choosing the right approach is a shared process. Melisha will work alongside the client to decide what feels most useful, and she adapts methods based on individual goals, beliefs and preferences. That collaborative planning is part of the early sessions rather than a one-off decision.

If you are considering online sessions, confirm the specific formats available before booking since the biography does not list them. Online counselling can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people use creative exercises and practical tools in the same way they are used in face-to-face work, so progress can be maintained even when meeting remotely.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepressionAddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Melisha help with?

She works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, relationships, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression, addictions and grief.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Melisha uses straightforward, client-centred sessions that combine practical tools with creative exercises to help people make progress more quickly.

What experience does she bring?

She has four years of counselling experience and draws on her own journey of finding confidence after a difficult period.

Which credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and practises from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Yes, she accepts international clients and runs sessions in English.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current options before booking to know which formats are offered.

How much do sessions cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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