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Nicola Ellis

Nicola Ellis

Therapist · United Kingdom

Gentle, person-centred counselling for practical change

  • Person-centred approach
  • Practical and plain
  • Works with trauma

About Nicola

Nicola Ellis is a counsellor working from the United Kingdom. She trained in person-centred counselling and has a Bachelor of Arts with Honours in Person-Centred Counselling and a Bachelor of Science with Honours in Psychology. Nicola aims to create a warm, non-judgemental space where people can talk through what is worrying them.

Nicola uses a client-led, person-centred way of working. She adapts sessions to each person’s pace and needs and draws on psychological knowledge to make sense of patterns that cause distress. Sessions focus on practical steps and clearer self-understanding rather than jargon.

She helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, low mood and grief, and with relationship or intimacy-related issues. Other areas Nicola supports include ADHD, addictions, self-esteem, eating and sleeping difficulties, and coping with life changes. Money and financial issues are included among the concerns she lists.

Nicola also works with a broader range of concerns such as trauma and abuse, caregiver stress, chronic illness, body image, and attachment-related difficulties. Her approach is flexible; she will discuss which ideas or techniques might suit your situation as sessions progress.

With six years’ experience and BACP registration, Nicola offers a straightforward, compassionate way of working. She invites an initial short conversation to see if her way of working feels right, and to answer any questions before you book.

How her approaches translate to online therapy

Nicola draws on person-centred ideas and attachment-based thinking to shape online work. Person-centred counselling focuses on listening without judgement and following the client’s lead, which helps when someone needs space to make sense of their feelings. Attachment-based ideas look at patterns in close relationships and can be useful for relationship worries, intimacy concerns, and old wounds that affect current connections.

She also uses mindfulness-influenced practices to help people manage stress and anxiety in daily life. Mindfulness techniques teach simple ways to notice thoughts and bodily tension, which can reduce reactivity and make practical coping easier.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. Nicola will work together with clients to decide which ideas to try, and she will adjust based on how helpful those approaches feel. This is a collaborative process that changes as goals and needs evolve.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions around work and family life and reducing travel time. When booking, confirm which session formats Nicola currently offers, as options were listed in her biography but may change. Therapists who offer online work can make it easier to sustain regular appointments and try different session rhythms to suit everyday schedules.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepressionADHDAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What concerns can Nicola help with?

She lists a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, ADHD, addictions, relationship and intimacy-related issues, grief, eating and sleeping problems, and coping with life changes.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Nicola uses a person-centred and client-led style, adapting the way she works to each person’s pace and needs and focusing on practical understanding and steps.

How much experience does she have?

She has six years of experience working as a counsellor and supporting people with the concerns listed in her profile.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds BACP registration and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can I have sessions in another language or from overseas?

Sessions are offered in English and Nicola accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography mentions online video, telephone, and text-based sessions; confirm current session options with Nicola before booking.

How does payment work and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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