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Rob Millist

Rob Millist

Therapist · United Kingdom

Supportive counsellor for life and money stress

  • Warm practical style
  • Goal and progress focused
  • Works with diverse issues

About Rob

Rob Millist is a counsellor with seven years' experience supporting people through stress, anxiety, relationship strain and life changes. He holds BACP and NCPS credentials and has worked with organisations such as Youthline UK, Mind and PAWS. He uses a direct, warm style that aims to help people feel heard and build practical confidence.

Rob blends straightforward conversation with grounding techniques to manage strong emotions. Sessions begin with a longer first meeting to set goals and discuss a monthly Wellbeing Score, then move to regular shorter appointments. He offers a mix of counselling and coaching approaches suited to personal and work-related concerns.

His practice covers a wide range of issues including depression, bipolar, addictions, ADHD, eating and sleeping difficulties, grief, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related concerns. He also supports people working through attachment, abandonment and communication difficulties, plus body image and sexual diversity topics such as BDSM and kink.

Rob draws on approaches like attachment-based work, client-centred listening and cognitive behavioural techniques. He aims to make therapy practical, helping people try small changes between sessions and notice what improves.

Sessions are presented with clarity about goals and progress, including the use of a Wellbeing Score to track changes over time. Prospective clients should use the Start Therapy flow to complete the short matching questionnaire and schedule according to availability.

Approaches that shape online work

Rob uses attachment-based ideas to look at how early relationships affect current patterns. This can help people who struggle with trust, abandonment feelings or repeating relationship issues.

He also uses client-centred counselling, which focuses on listening and understanding your experience without judgement. That approach helps people feel accepted and explore what matters most to them.

Finally, cognitive behavioural techniques are used to identify unhelpful thoughts and try small practical changes. CBT-style tasks can be useful for anxiety, low mood, stress and some eating or sleeping difficulties.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. Rob works collaboratively to match methods to each person's goals and preferences, and adapts the plan if something does not feel right. He combines listening, practical exercises and progress checks such as a monthly Wellbeing Score to guide the work.

Confirm which session formats are being offered before booking, as the biography does not list them. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a working day, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins or regular weekly slots that suit busy schedules.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD
AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with many common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar, addictions and eating or sleeping problems. He also supports people facing trauma, grief, relationship and intimacy-related issues.

What is his approach in sessions?

He combines client-centred listening with practical techniques from cognitive behavioural and attachment-based approaches. Sessions include grounding exercises and tasks to try between appointments.

What experience does he bring?

He has seven years' experience in both one-to-one and corporate settings, and has worked with Youthline UK, Mind and PAWS.

How are his credentials presented?

He holds BACP and NCPS credentials and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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