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Dr. Saf Buxy

Dr. Saf Buxy

Therapist · United Kingdom

Experienced counsellor for stress and money concerns

  • 20 years experience
  • BACP registered
  • Works in English

About Saf

Dr. Saf Buxy helps people facing stress, anxiety, addiction and the fallout of past trauma. He supports people dealing with low self-esteem, depression, grief and relationship or intimacy worries. He also works with career stress, parenting strain, sleeping and eating concerns, and issues linked to identity and LGBT matters.

He has 20 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom and is registered with the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy). He aims to treat people with respect, sensitivity and compassion. Conversations are adapted to each person’s situation rather than using a one-size-fits-all script.

In sessions he listens first and then helps set simple, practical goals. He focuses on what someone can try between meetings, such as small behaviour changes or new ways of thinking. He will work at a pace that suits each person and check in about what is or is not helping.

Dr. Buxy also supports people who are coping with major life changes, caregiving stress, or issues that come up around attachment and abandonment. He can help when stress builds into anger, or when confidence and motivation feel hard to find.

He accepts enquiries from outside the UK and conducts work in English. If you'd like to learn more, follow the site steps to start therapy and complete the brief matching questionnaire to arrange a first session.

Approaches that guide online work and what they do

Dr. Buxy uses practical, evidence-based techniques to help people cope and move forward. One common approach focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them against real-life evidence, which can reduce anxiety and low mood and make day-to-day problems feel more manageable.

Another approach emphasises gradual behavioural change. That means breaking bigger goals into small steps and trying them out between sessions to build momentum and confidence. This way often helps with motivation, sleep, addictions and rebuilding routines after a setback.

Finding the right fit is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to decide which approaches match their needs, goals and preferences. If something is not helping, adjustments are made together so the work stays useful and realistic.

If you are considering online sessions, please confirm the exact formats available before booking as they are not specified in the biography. Many people find online work easier to fit into busy days, for example by removing travel time or allowing shorter check-ins during a lunch break. Others prefer in-depth scheduled sessions that let them focus fully on the issues at hand. The practical aim is to make therapy workable alongside everyday life and commitments.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepressionLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor handle?

Dr. Buxy supports people with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma, self-esteem and depression, plus relationship and intimacy concerns and related issues such as grief and career strain.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He listens first and then works with each person to set practical goals. Conversations are tailored and focus on small changes you can try between sessions.

How much experience does he have?

He brings 20 years of professional experience practising in the United Kingdom.

What credentials and location are relevant?

He is registered with the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported and can international clients enquire?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts enquiries from international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography did not list specific session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking.

How are costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started with him?

Select the Start Therapy button on the site, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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