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Shantel Farrow

Shantel Farrow

Therapist · Oklahoma

Practical support for stress and relationships

  • Anxiety and stress
  • Relationship struggles
  • Trauma informed care

About Shantel

Shantel Farrow is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in Oklahoma who helps people facing anxiety, depression, stress, and relationship struggles. She focuses on practical steps people can use right away to feel steadier and more in control. Sessions emphasize clear goals and steady progress so clients can return to everyday life with better tools.

Farrow uses a person-centered way of working that begins with listening. She asks about daily routines, what feels hardest, and what a better day would look like. From there she combines talk-based work with focused techniques to reduce distress and improve communication. Her approach aims to make change feel possible rather than overwhelming.

Her background includes eight years of clinical experience in Oklahoma. She brings approaches such as attachment-based therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and EMDR into sessions when they match a person’s needs. These methods are used to address trauma, relationship pain, and persistent patterns that keep people stuck.

People come to Farrow for a wide range of concerns, including addiction, grief, parenting strain, body image, ADHD, and coping with life changes. She also supports those dealing with blended family issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and communication problems. Her work blends practical skill-building with attention to how early relationships shape current challenges.

To start, clients complete a short questionnaire and then schedule based on availability. The process is collaborative and paced to fit each person’s situation.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Attachment-based therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current patterns. Online sessions using this approach help people notice connection patterns and practice new ways of relating that reduce anxiety and conflict. Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, looks at thoughts and behaviors that keep problems active and teaches concrete skills to change them, which can be practiced between sessions. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, EMDR, is used to process traumatic memories and reduce their emotional impact when it fits the client's goals.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will ask about your goals, daily life, and what has or hasn’t helped before. Then she and the client decide collaboratively which methods to try and how to pace the work so it feels manageable.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow for quieter check-ins during work breaks or between commitments. Some approaches lend themselves to focused skill practice and brief homework assignments that fit well with remote sessions, while other work can shift gradually across meeting types as needed.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepressionAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?

Farrow helps people facing anxiety, depression, stress, relationship and intimacy issues. Other areas include addiction, grief, parenting strain, body image, ADHD, and coping with life changes.

What is the therapy style like in sessions?

Sessions are person-centered and practical, starting with listening and then building clear goals. Techniques from CBT, attachment work, and EMDR may be used as appropriate.

How much clinical experience does the therapist have?

Shantel Farrow has eight years of experience working with people on a range of emotional and relationship challenges in Oklahoma.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, listed as LMFT, practicing in Oklahoma.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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