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Sophie Wilfin

Sophie Wilfin

Therapist · United Kingdom

Warm counsellor for stress and life change

  • Compassionate listening
  • Practical steps
  • Strengths focused

About Sophie

Sophie Wilfin is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief and parenting pressures. She also supports people dealing with issues around self-esteem, career change, eating concerns and intimacy. Sophie lists money and financial issues among the concerns she can address, alongside trauma and LGBT matters. Sophie holds BACP registration and has four years of professional experience in the United Kingdom.

Sophie works in a straightforward, supportive way. She treats each person as the expert in their own life and helps them build on their strengths. Sessions focus on what matters most to the client and on practical steps they can try between meetings.

Her background includes work at Barnet Bereavement, where she supported people through loss and grief. That role shaped her approach to listening and holding strong emotions gently. She also brings experience with anxiety, depression and family difficulties from other clinical settings.

In practice Sophie draws on a mix of approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy. She adapts techniques to suit the client rather than using a fixed formula. The aim is to help clients find clarity, calm and new ways to cope.

Sophie offers a warm, non-judgemental space to talk. She focuses on understanding each person’s story, validating their feelings and helping them take small, manageable steps towards change.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and values, then taking small actions that match what matters to you. It is useful for stress, anxiety and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at patterns of thinking and behaviour and teaches practical strategies to change unhelpful habits. It can help with anxiety, mood and confidence. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) attends to feelings in close relationships and helps people understand and shift emotional responses that cause distress.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and together you will decide what feels like the best fit for your needs, goals and preferences. This is a collaborative process and Sophie will adapt methods as you progress.

If you are thinking about online therapy, check which session types are available before booking. The practical benefits include easier fitting of sessions into a busy week, shorter check-ins when needed, and options that reduce travel time. Many people find online sessions let them keep momentum between appointments and try techniques in everyday settings. Confirm current session options with the service when you match and schedule so you know what will work for you.

Areas of focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?

Sophie supports people with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, grief, parenting pressures and self-esteem. She also works with trauma, intimacy-related issues, eating concerns and career change.

What is Sophie’s therapeutic style?

Her style is warm and non-judgemental with an emphasis on listening and practical steps. She treats the client as the expert and focuses on strengths and small actions between sessions.

What experience does she bring?

She has four years of professional experience and has worked at Barnet Bereavement supporting people through loss and grief. That work informs her approach to strong emotions.

What credentials and location are listed?

Sophie is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

In which languages can sessions be held?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with Sophie?

Sophie is not currently accepting international clients.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with Sophie?

To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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